bankruptcy aint broke
My relationship is falling apart……..?
I feel stuck and SAD, I am sick of being the only one 2 work.
Evan owns a Concrete biz but becuz of the economy it aint doing too well. We are broke, I have to file bankruptcy, we fight all the time. He is NEVER nice to me anymore, he used to be SOOO sweet. He has worked for one of his contractor friends for the past 2 weeks and made a WHOPPING 300 dollars! It is actually costing US money for him to work. I am over it and I dont have the courage to leave. I hate feeling sad, not having anything, and crying. I think he hates me, no lie. I cant talk to him about anything he says I am nagging. Well it aint funny I cant pay our bills by myself and I cant wait around HOPING one of his bids will actually come thru..
I dont know anymore, but I am NOT happy…
Thank you for letting me vent
sounds like hes under allot of pressure and he doesn’t even know that hes hurting you (i know that sounds strange) but the truth is he doesn’t hate you, he hates the fact that he cant provide for you. i know you must feel very frustrated but try a positive approach. when you see him, try to keep in mind what Ive said and see if you can take a little escape together and bring yourself closer.
now i know this may be hard but keep in mind there is aways a different perspective to everything.
ask him “do you think i love you” see if he seems surprised by that. he might be thinking that you have fallen out of love with him because hes not making enough money to bring you happiness.
continue to talk to him but not in a judging way more of a supporting way. most men just want to feel that they have the support of there wife’s when things are tough.
i hope this makes sense to you. the good thing is that you want to turn it around instead of pack it in.
stay positive and hope-full.
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